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Husband’s Personal Injury Award Converted Into Marital Assets And Subject to Equitable Distribution

divorce lawyer New YorkIn a case before Justice Stacy Bennett sitting in a Divorce Part in Nassau County, a wife brought a divorce lawsuit against her husband. They had been married in 2001. Issues involving parental access, grounds, custody, and all other issues had been decided by the court. The issue presented to Justice Stacy Bennett was whether a personal injury settlement of $1,638,348.90, which had been initiated prior to the marriage was converted from separate property into marital property. And then, if it was marital property, what portion of the marital property would the wife be entitled to?

The wife in this case alleged the personal injury settlement award to the husband was converted and transmuted into marital assets and were no longer separate property. The husband alleged that since the assets involved were all the proceeds of a personal injury award, and personal injury awards are not subject to equitable distribution, all of said assets belonged to him.

Assets Converted Into Marital Property

Justice Stacy Bennett held a trial with regard to this matter. After reviewing the evidence, she found the husband had converted the separate assets into marital assets and therefore these assets were subject to a distributive award.

The usual manner in which separate property assets are converted into marital assets is by putting one’s spouse on an account where those assets are located. Another way of converting them would be to spend them on improving a marital asset, such as the marital residence which is in both parties’ names.


If you want to maintain separate assets, separate and not have them become marital property, you should maintain them in a separate bank account or investment account and not put your spouse’s name on the account.divorce attorney

The Grounds For Divorce in New York

The Grounds For Divorce in New YorkIrretrievable Breakdown of the Marriage

The newest ground for divorce is a no fault ground. This no fault ground is used in the large majority of divorce cases today. It simplifies the divorce process because it is a ground which does not usually have an available defense to it. The ground specifically states the relationship between the spouses has been irretrievably broken down for a period of at least six months. You do not have to specifically allege any details or information as to why the parties aren’t getting along. Although the irretrievable breakdown between the parties establishes a no fault ground for divorce, the issues of child custody, visitation, equitable distribution of property, child support, spousal maintenance, and other financial and custody related issues need to be resolved before the court actually grants a divorce.

Living Separate and Apart Under A Separation Agreement
or Court Judgment for Separation for One Year

This ground is not often used anymore. It had been used often in the past, but when the new ground, irretrievable breakdown of the marriage, came into existence a number of years ago, this ground for divorce fell largely into disuse. However, it is still a valid reason to get divorced. If the parties to the marriage enter into a validly executed separation agreement and live separate and apart pursuant to the terms of this agreement and comply with the terms of this agreement, this becomes a ground for obtaining a divorce. This also applies to judgments of separation issued by courts for a period of one year. It should be noted the grounds for bringing a proceeding for judgment for separation are exactly the same as the grounds used to obtain a divorce and therefore it is usually cheaper to go straight for the divorce and not for a judgment of separation.

Cruel and Inhuman Treatment

This ground for divorce involves physical or mental cruelty which puts the victimized spouse at risk. The allegations of physical or mental cruelty have to be specifically stated with regard to time, place, location and specificity regarding what took place to utilize this grounds for divorce.


Adultery is the most difficult grounds of divorce to prove. In addition to being difficult to prove, there are defenses to adultery. Some of these defenses are that you forgave your spouse for having sexual relations with him or her after discovering the adultery. If the person alleging their spouse committed adultery also committed adultery, this can be a defense to the action for adultery.


Abandonment involves leaving your spouse for a period of one year.

Sexual Abandonment: Sexual abandonment involves refusing to have sexual relations with your spouse for a period of one year.


Although there are a variety of grounds for divorce in New York, today almost all divorce lawyers in New York recommend to their clients to use the no fault ground of irretrievable breakdown of the marriage. It is less expensive, less difficult to prove, and to a large extent fool proof.divorce attorney

Ashley Madison Data Going Public Causing Rising Divorce Rates

divorce attorney in New YorkHackers recently posted the names, addresses, partial credit card numbers and email addresses of the large majority of almost 40 million users of the Ashley Madison website. The Ashley Madison website acts as a center for individuals seeking to cheat on their spouses to meet other individuals who seek to cheat on their spouses through the internet. The Ashley Madison website was hacked by a group called the Impact Team. They claim to publish personal information on the “cheating dirtbags” who use Ashley Madison and “deserve no such discretion.” The Ashely Madison website states “life is short, have an affair.” It invites new users to join its millions of “anonymous members.” There is an airbrushed image of a woman on its website whose eyes are hidden and finger is pressed to her lips indicating that no one will find out your information. The woman has a gold wedding ring on her finger. The website claims the material on their website is 100% discreet. is owned by Avid Life Media. They have recently put out a statement stating “the criminal, or criminals, involved in this act have appointed themselves as the moral judge, juror and executioner, seeing fit to impose a personal notion of virtue on all of society. We will not sit idly by and allow these thieves to force their personal ideology on citizens around the world.”

Spouses today can go on the internet and find out if their partner’s name and information was listed on the Ashley Madison website seeking to cheat. This has caused an increase of calls to divorce lawyers. Spouses now can simply go online and see if their spouse has been seeking to cheat on them. This has caused an increase in inquiries to divorce law firms and it is expected to cause many divorces.


The largest cheaters website has now had its lid blown open and almost 40 million people may be subject to difficult questions and discussions with their spouses. Most people assume the material they place on the internet is secure. Obviously this is not true!family law attorney

Father Denied Sole Custody But Should Be Allowed Parenting Time With The Children

family law attorney on long islandA father had brought an application to the Family Court seeking a modification of a custody order. Father and mother had initially stipulated the mother would have sole legal custody of the children and the father would have parenting time. Father thereafter brought a proceeding to change physical custody of the children from the mother to him. He claimed the mother had prevented him from having parenting time with the children. He also argued the mother’s lifestyle was unstable and had a negative influence on the children. Unfortunately for the father, the Family Court dismissed his application. The father thereafter appealed.

The Appeal

The appeal was heard by the Appellate Division for the Third Department, an appeals court. The appeals court found the record supported the lower court’s finding the father did not meet his burden of proof to show a modification of the prior custody order was in the children’s best interest. The court took into consideration the fact the father had not utilized his parenting time with his children for the years 2006 through 2011. It should be noted the parties reconciled in 2011, but during this reconciliation it was found the father engaged in “fits of domestic violence” in the presence of the children. The appeals court therefore found no reason to change the sole custody from the mother to the father. However, the appeals court found the Family Court should have looked into the issue of providing the father with an appropriate mechanism for contacting or communicating with his children. The appeals court stated there had been a change of circumstances since the original 2006 court order and therefore the father’s right to have parenting time with his children needed to be reevaluated. The case was therefore sent back to the Family Court to establish an appropriate parenting time arrangement for the father.matrimonial attorney

VIDEO: A Billion Dollar Divorce

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Elliot S. Schlissel is a divorce attorney with more than 35 years experience representing clients in all aspects of matrimonial law. He prepares prenuptial and post nuptial agreements. Elliot can be reached for consultation at 516-561-6645, 718-350-2802 or by email to

Husband’s Down Payment to Purchase Home Considered Separate Property

family law attorneyIn a recent decision, the Appellate Division of the Third Department, an appeals court, has upheld a Supreme Court decision which found the down payment a husband used to purchase the marital residence was the husband’s separate property.

The Case

The parties to a marriage purchased a home 5 months after they were married. At that time, the husband put $33,000 of his separate property into a joint bank account with his wife. This took place approximately a month before purchasing the home. $25,000 from the account was used as a down payment in the transaction. There was a divorce trial on the issue of equitable distribution of marital assets in the Supreme Court. The judge held in that proceeding the $25,000 in funds were the husband’s separate property and he was given a credit for this amount concerning the distribution of the parties’ assets. The wife, unhappy with this decision, brought an appeal to the Appellate Division of the Third Department.

Separate Property

The Supreme Court judge who heard the equitable distribution portion of the divorce case had found the funds were the husband’s separate property based on the timing of the deposit on the purchase of the home, his ability to trace the source of the funds, and the husband’s testimony they were only placed in the joint account because it was the same bank the parties’ obtained the mortgage from. On appeal, the Appellate Division found no basis to overrule the decision of the Supreme Court judge with regard to the designation of the $25,000 as separate property.

The appellate court did find the Supreme Court judge made a mistake in directing the immediate sale of the marital residence. The appeals court found the law indicated a preference to allow the residential custodial parent to remain in the marital residence until such time as the youngest child reached the age of 18, except in special circumstances which were not present in this case. The court therefore ruled the wife was entitled to exclusive possession and occupancy of the marital home until the youngest child was 18.matrimonial attorney

Marriage and Divorce Attitudes of Americans

Watch today’s video blog where we will be talking about the Marriage and Divorce Attitudes of Americans:

Elliot S. Schlissel is a family law attorney with more than 35 years of experience representing clients in all types of family law matters. He and his associates can be reached for consultation at 516-561-6645, 718-350-2802 or by email to The phones are monitored 24/7. Call today for a consultation.

An Historical Perspective of Mother’s Custody Rights Concerning Their Children – Part I

parental rights attorneyHistorically, courts favored giving custody of young children to mothers. There were several doctrines which were utilized as the basis to support giving mothers custody of young children. This doctrine was known as either the “tender years doctrine” or the “maternal preference doctrine”. The basis for this legal theory favored giving mothers custody of young children because it was in the children’s best interests to be raised by their mother. Research eventually showed children benefited by having both parents involved in raising them.

Gender Neutral Custody Laws

The “maternal preference” and “tender years doctrine” theories were eventually replaced by laws which provided no gender preference with regard to who would raise the children. Father’s rights lawyers have maintained, however, even though the laws have changed and there is no longer a preference for mothers to have custody of young children, the laws are not fairly enforced by the courts. They claim the courts still favor mothers with regard to custody matters, and the statistics as to who gets custody of young children supports these claims.

Children’s Best Interests

The courts in New York decide who receives custody of children based on what is in the children’s best interests. The courts look into each of the parent’s interactions with the children. Parents who nurture children and who are involved in their children’s lives on a regular basis are viewed more favorably by courts than parents who are only sporadically involved in their children’s lives. Mothers seeking custody of their children should be involved in their children’s lives on a day to day basis. The best way for mothers to prepare for custody legal battles is to consult with attorneys who are experienced in litigating cases involving mother’s rights and have had a successful track record of obtaining custody for mothers.mother's rights attorney

Child Custody Lawyer – Part II

family law attorney on long islandCustody Litigation

Unfortunately, sometimes parents are unable to work out reasonable, amicable parenting arrangements out of court. When this happens, custody litigation ensues. Under the law in New York today, both parents technically have equal rights to custody of their children.

Many parents who come into my office have the misconception if the parents don’t agree on who gets custody, the courts will order joint custody of the children. This is not the case. Joint custody arrangements work out much better when the parents can amicably discuss health, education and other issues involving the welfare of their children. The courts will generally not order joint custody if there is a hostile relationship between the parents.

Custody Trials

Custody legal problems should only be brought to trial when all other options fail. Child custody litigation is emotionally taxing and expensive. The courts will usually appoint an attorney to represent the child or children. The courts may order each of the parties to contribute towards the cost of paying the legal fees for the child or children’s lawyer.
When negotiations fail, our office aggressively litigates custody proceedings. We have extensive experience in representing clients in child custody/visitation proceedings in both the Family Courts and the Supreme Courts. We litigate numerous custody cases each and every year.

The Custody Case

Child custody litigation may require the use of forensic psychologists, private investigators and other experts to prove one of the parents is the superior parent to obtain custody of the children.

Emergency Custody Proceedings

Sometimes it is necessary to bring an emergency proceeding for temporary custody of the child or children. Examples of situations where this is required may involve situations where there are indications the child is being neglected or abused by the other parent, or individuals residing with the other parent, or individuals who frequent the premises maintained by the other parent. Immediate emergency proceedings are required when a child is in danger related to medical conditions, physical problems or psychological issues while in the custody of the other parent.

Sometimes one parent decides they are going to move away from where they currently live without an agreement with the other parent or an order from the Family Court or Supreme Court. This is another case where an emergency custody proceeding can be brought to prevent the unauthorized relocation of a child.


Children are the ultimate, important things in parents’ lives. Custody issues, parenting issues, and/or visitation issues are much more complicated than most parents realize. Utilizing a law firm with more than three decades of experience in dealing with these issues is the best way to protect your rights and ensure an outcome which meets your expectations, needs and the best interests of your children! child custody lawyer in New York

Child Abduction Cases

family law attorney on long islandParents abducting one or more of their children is a growing phenomena in the United States. Child abduction situations both within the country and outside of the country are crimes. Child abduction can be defined as the unauthorized taking of a child from the custodial parent. The rate of child abduction is increasing in the United States. It is estimated that approximately 204,000 cases of child abduction or child kidnapping have taken place in the past twelve months in the United States. These crimes affect the abandoned parent and the child.

If you believe the other parent may take your child out of the state you are in, or out of the country, you should immediately contact an experienced attorney who deals with these matters to protect yourself and your child or children. In addition, if you are the victim of domestic violence and you seek to have your child removed from the custody of the abusive parent, it is also extremely important you do not use self help remedies and skip town. Contact an experienced child custody lawyer to help you with these situations.

International Child Abduction

In some relationships it is more likely there will be a potential for a child abduction. These situations involve children born to a parent with dual citizenship or where the child has dual citizenship. Parents with a history of parental alienation and lack of cooperation with the other parent are also more likely to be involved in the removing of a child from the state or from the country.

The Hague Convention

There is an international treaty referred to as the Hague Convention. It is an international treaty which many countries in the world are part of. The United States has signed this treaty. The purpose of this treaty is to protect children from being taken to countries by one parent other than the country that was the child’s principal place of residence. The purpose of the Hague Convention is to establish uniform rules with regard to the returning of children to their home country from which they were improperly removed.

Legal Representation in Child Abduction Cases

The attorneys at the Law Offices of Schlissel DeCorpo have been involved in a variety of child abduction cases, both domestically and internationally. Our law firm has extensive experience in these matters and takes aggressive legal action to represent the victim and have the child returned to the appropriate state.

Should you be concerned you may be facing a child abduction situation, or should you be the victim of domestic violence or harassment, you need to take appropriate action to assert your legal remedies. If you are facing these situations, we urge you to contact our law firm immediately. Our phones are monitored 24/7. Attorneys are on duty seven days a week to talk to you. You can never replace a child that is kidnapped or abducted to another jurisdiction! divorce lawyer on Long Island

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